Dating your Ex?

Hey..something is happening o....Let me ask you this first, would you date your ex? maybe fiance or fiancee? well that's rhetorical..but for now i just got a story from a close friend who agreed to let me post this....
He parted ways with his ex-fiancee one year ago and now its like the lady want in ..you know she wants to come back....meanwhile she left in the first place...so what should he do? take her back? or what? i need to help this brother please...your replies be sincere..thanks

It's Valentine Again!

Hey Love birds, its Valentine's season again....Some persons are really going to be "Love drunk", some will be "love sick", others will be "love struck", its all entwined in the season of love...

But in all of these, one question bugs me, and i think you are in the position to tell me... WHO DA HECK IS VALENTINE?

I've got my own opinions about who Valentine is, but with what i see around, people take it as a season to replenish the earth! lol.... you know what i mean right?

So tell me, WHO DA HECK IS VALENTINE?

Does Love at first sight exist?

Hi Juliet, people keep asking me this question...does love at first sight exist? Truly i think that is an understatement, because how can one explain the way i met you? I really and wholeheartedly believe in loving someone right from the moment you see her...then you go ahead to know more, and build from there...don't get me wrong, its risky though, but hey! Life is s risk...

I have some persons views about this topic,,,,let's check them out>>>>>



* Yes I believe there is such a thing as love at first sight. Love at first sight is when you look at someone in a way you've never looked at anyone else and he/she catches your attention instantly. You have to get to know the person well enough to know that their the one but that comes with the relationship as you grow, but you'll know when you see him/her. I don't believe there is such a thing as love at first sight but physical attraction that makes us curious about about getting to know that person. I think that physical attraction tempts us into wanting to be in a relationship with that person and if they are not what we are looking for, the relationship soon ends and we move on. Sometimes with our heart intact or broken.

* Honestly, I do believe in love at first sight. It may not happen often...but it happens. Now don't get this confused with lust at first sight! If you are lusting after someone, you just want to get in bed with him/her and you always think about his body. Love at first sight is the kind of love where your breath gets quicker when you are around him/her, you get nervous, you can't get him/her out of your mind, and you know that he/she is the one you are going to marry.

* No, but lust at first sight does. You'll have to get to know the person before you can really love them.

* Not like we think its like you just get this feeling when you meet someone you know somethings there i guess it should be called not loving someone at first sight cause it seems you know who you don't like at first but you why can't you know if you love them its more of I know somethings there not like really love love

* NO! Love at first sight is a foolish myth.

* Lust at first sight is possible.

* Infatuation at first sight is possible.

* Love is when you care about someone else more than you care about yourself. In order to experience this, you need a strong emotional bond with them, that you cannot possibly gain just by seeing someone.

1. In some cases yes and in some cases no and if you think in your own opinion that that is true that it does then it is.

* Love is a very complex and surreal experience. Can it be felt and known at first sight is a question that can only be answered by the moment and by those experiencing it. To say that it is not possible is to say that a cancer victim has no chance of survival once it hits the third stage. Belief is a powerful tool. It is needed especially when dealing with the ideals of love. Just because it may not have happened to you does not mean that it can never happen.

* I don't see how you can love someone without knowing them. So I believe that it is lust at first sight. If you think you love someone based on their appearance, than it's not love. Love involves physical attraction, but you also have to enjoy their personality. A woman can be very attractive but be real rude. A man can be handsome, but be very abusive. So I think you need to get to know the person before you can love them. Jamie

* Every one defines what love is differently. I believe in love at first acquaintance because I have fallen in love with some one after just one night so I guess that love at first sight is quite possible. If when you look into there eyes you feel an intense emotion which you know as love then it is. you shouldn't have to rationalize it or deny your feeling and tell your self it's "lust" or infatuation. It's not be the same love as that for a husband or long term partner because there are degrees and variations of love which can grow and change.

* Love at first sight does exist. i would know, I met my wife 25 years ago and fell in love the first time we saw each other and we are still going strong.

* I believe in love at first sight. I saw my second husband for the very first time and I felt as if I'd met the person I should have always been with. We've been happily married for 36 years.

* (From a guy's perspective): I believe in love at first sight. There's three people claiming to have experienced it in answers to this question, alone. I recently experienced it. However, it's not resulted in anything yet. She hasn't agreed to a date with me yet. Well, I've been too cool and feeling too much like a loser to actually ask her to go on a date with me, but I think I've asked her to do other things with me, like go for lunch or something. We haven't gone on a date yet and I doubt if we ever will, based on my experience with exotic dancers. She's an exotic dancer and I'm a customer. In my opinion I've never had a girlfriend. So maybe I'm feeling FALSE love at first sight. Love at first sight would seem to be almost like a psychic power, even if it's felt by someone only once in a lifetime. If true love only happens when you know and accept that person, then to love someone at first sight, would require an extremely perceptive individual, though perhaps not intelligence as based on IQ tests, but perceptive or intelligent in knowing what a person is looking for in a person. Its been said that "love at first sight" is most likely the soul's recognition of itself in another person, or its counterpoint.

SO Juliet, do you think loving me at first sight was wrong? or right?

Luv always

Romeo

The Meaning of Love

Hi my Romeo, since a very long time ago, people have searched for the meaning of love. But even the great philosophers, with their profound definitions, could not fully touch its true essence. In a survey of 4-8 year olds, kids share their views on love. But what do little kids know about love? Read on and be surprised that despite their young and innocent minds, kids already have a simple but deep grasp of that four-letter word.

"Love is that first feeling you feel before all the bad stuff gets in the way."

"When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love."

"When someone loves you, the way she says your name is different. You know that your name is safe in her mouth."

"Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other."

"Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your french fries without making them give you any of theirs."

"Love is when someone hurts you. And you get so mad but you don't yell at him because you know it would hurt his feelings."

"Love is what makes you smile when you're tired."

"Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK."

"Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My mommy and daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss but they look happy and sometimes they dance in the kitchen while kissing."

"Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen."

"If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate."

"Love is hugging. Love is kissing. Love is saying no."

"When you tell someone something bad about yourself and you're scared she won't love you anymore. But then you get surprised because not only does she still love you, she loves you even more."

"There are 2 kinds of love. Our love. God's love. But God makes both kinds of them."

"Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday."

"Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they've know each other so well."

"During my piano recital, I was on a stage and scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore."

"Love is-if you hold hands and sit beside each other in the cafeteria. That means you're in love. Otherwise, you can sit across from each other and be okay."

"My mommy loves me more than anybody. You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night."

"Love is when mommy gives daddy the best piece of chicken."

"Don't feel so bad if you don't have a boyfriend. There's lots of stuff you can do without one."

"Love is when mommy sees daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford."

"If you want somebody to love you, then just be yourself. Some people try to act like somebody else, somebody the boy likes better. I think the boy isn't being very good if he does this to you and you should just find a nicer boy."

"Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day"

"When you're born and see your mommy for the first time.

"Love is what makes people hide in the dark corners of movie theaters."

"Love goes on even when you stop breathing and you pick up where you left off when you reach heaven."

"My enemies taught me how to love."

"I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones."

"You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget."

"You have to fall in love before you get married. Then when you're married, you just sit around and read books together."

"I let my big sister pick on me because my Mom says she only picks on me because she loves me. So I pick on my baby sister because I love her."

"Love cards like Valentine's cards say stuff on them that we'd like to say ourselves, but we wouldn't be caught dead saying."

"When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you."

"Love is when mommy sees daddy on the toilet and she doesn't think it's gross."

"You never have to be lonely. There's always somebody to love, even if it's just a squirrel or a kitten."

"You can break love, but it won't die."

Hope u understand now how deeply i luv u?
4ever yours
Juliet.

What is love?

Hi Juliet myluv, how are you doing today? I really have a bugging question on my mind for sometime now, would mind if i share it with you?

i would like to know the true meaning of LOVE...

I've heard so many things about love that i've almost gotten confused.....here goes..
WHAT ...IS... THE... MEANING... OF... LOVE...???

Someone once told me love is treating others well, some say pleasure, some say its an emotional investment, others say its a kind of "feeling"....

so i would really like to know form u my luv, what do u know love to be???


cant wait to hear form u my luv, missing u so...

4ever urs,
Romeo