Does Love at first sight exist?

Hi Juliet, people keep asking me this question...does love at first sight exist? Truly i think that is an understatement, because how can one explain the way i met you? I really and wholeheartedly believe in loving someone right from the moment you see her...then you go ahead to know more, and build from there...don't get me wrong, its risky though, but hey! Life is s risk...

I have some persons views about this topic,,,,let's check them out>>>>>



* Yes I believe there is such a thing as love at first sight. Love at first sight is when you look at someone in a way you've never looked at anyone else and he/she catches your attention instantly. You have to get to know the person well enough to know that their the one but that comes with the relationship as you grow, but you'll know when you see him/her. I don't believe there is such a thing as love at first sight but physical attraction that makes us curious about about getting to know that person. I think that physical attraction tempts us into wanting to be in a relationship with that person and if they are not what we are looking for, the relationship soon ends and we move on. Sometimes with our heart intact or broken.

* Honestly, I do believe in love at first sight. It may not happen often...but it happens. Now don't get this confused with lust at first sight! If you are lusting after someone, you just want to get in bed with him/her and you always think about his body. Love at first sight is the kind of love where your breath gets quicker when you are around him/her, you get nervous, you can't get him/her out of your mind, and you know that he/she is the one you are going to marry.

* No, but lust at first sight does. You'll have to get to know the person before you can really love them.

* Not like we think its like you just get this feeling when you meet someone you know somethings there i guess it should be called not loving someone at first sight cause it seems you know who you don't like at first but you why can't you know if you love them its more of I know somethings there not like really love love

* NO! Love at first sight is a foolish myth.

* Lust at first sight is possible.

* Infatuation at first sight is possible.

* Love is when you care about someone else more than you care about yourself. In order to experience this, you need a strong emotional bond with them, that you cannot possibly gain just by seeing someone.

1. In some cases yes and in some cases no and if you think in your own opinion that that is true that it does then it is.

* Love is a very complex and surreal experience. Can it be felt and known at first sight is a question that can only be answered by the moment and by those experiencing it. To say that it is not possible is to say that a cancer victim has no chance of survival once it hits the third stage. Belief is a powerful tool. It is needed especially when dealing with the ideals of love. Just because it may not have happened to you does not mean that it can never happen.

* I don't see how you can love someone without knowing them. So I believe that it is lust at first sight. If you think you love someone based on their appearance, than it's not love. Love involves physical attraction, but you also have to enjoy their personality. A woman can be very attractive but be real rude. A man can be handsome, but be very abusive. So I think you need to get to know the person before you can love them. Jamie

* Every one defines what love is differently. I believe in love at first acquaintance because I have fallen in love with some one after just one night so I guess that love at first sight is quite possible. If when you look into there eyes you feel an intense emotion which you know as love then it is. you shouldn't have to rationalize it or deny your feeling and tell your self it's "lust" or infatuation. It's not be the same love as that for a husband or long term partner because there are degrees and variations of love which can grow and change.

* Love at first sight does exist. i would know, I met my wife 25 years ago and fell in love the first time we saw each other and we are still going strong.

* I believe in love at first sight. I saw my second husband for the very first time and I felt as if I'd met the person I should have always been with. We've been happily married for 36 years.

* (From a guy's perspective): I believe in love at first sight. There's three people claiming to have experienced it in answers to this question, alone. I recently experienced it. However, it's not resulted in anything yet. She hasn't agreed to a date with me yet. Well, I've been too cool and feeling too much like a loser to actually ask her to go on a date with me, but I think I've asked her to do other things with me, like go for lunch or something. We haven't gone on a date yet and I doubt if we ever will, based on my experience with exotic dancers. She's an exotic dancer and I'm a customer. In my opinion I've never had a girlfriend. So maybe I'm feeling FALSE love at first sight. Love at first sight would seem to be almost like a psychic power, even if it's felt by someone only once in a lifetime. If true love only happens when you know and accept that person, then to love someone at first sight, would require an extremely perceptive individual, though perhaps not intelligence as based on IQ tests, but perceptive or intelligent in knowing what a person is looking for in a person. Its been said that "love at first sight" is most likely the soul's recognition of itself in another person, or its counterpoint.

SO Juliet, do you think loving me at first sight was wrong? or right?

Luv always

Romeo